A Guide to Aftercare: What Happens After the Cremation is Complete?

The period following the loss of a loved one is often a blur of emotions, paperwork, and quiet reflection. While much of the focus during the arrangement process is on the immediate steps required for disposition, the journey does not truly end once the cremation has taken place. At Sensible Choice Cremation, our experience has shown us that families often feel a sense of relief mixed with new questions once the "official" tasks are done. Understanding what follows—the phase we call aftercare—is essential for moving forward with peace of mind and ensuring that your loved one’s final transition is handled with the same dignity and simplicity that guided the initial arrangements.

Before the cremation process begins, the deceased is cared for in our secure holding facility. We understand that knowing where your loved one is resting provides a measure of comfort. Our professional and staff services include the coordination and guidance necessary to manage this time with the utmost respect. Once the necessary legal documentation—such as the registration of death and the coroner’s certificate—is ready, the final transfer to the crematorium occurs. This step is handled at the earliest practicable opportunity to ensure the process remains efficient and straightforward for the families we serve.

For many families, especially those in Markham who are looking for a straightforward process, understanding the logistics of the crematorium can be helpful. We primarily utilize the North Toronto Crematorium for our services. The standard cremation fee is a vital part of our all-inclusive package, ensuring there are no hidden costs during this sensitive time. While the standard process follows a professional timeline, we also offer optional services for those with specific needs, such as a 24-hour or 48-hour return of cremated remains. We have found that having a clear expectation of when the remains will be ready helps families plan their next steps, whether that involves a private gathering or a formal interment.

Once the cremation is complete, the remains are placed in a temporary cardboard container or an urn of your choosing. A question we often hear is how the remains are returned. Families have several choices here. You may pick them up directly, or you can opt for the personal delivery of cremated remains to your home by our staff. For those who may need more time to decide on a final resting place, we can hold the remains securely, though a refundable deposit is required to ensure they are eventually claimed. This flexibility allows you to focus on your emotional well-being without feeling rushed into making long-term decisions immediately.

The "aftercare" phase is often when families decide how best to honor their loved one’s memory permanently. Our direct cremation services in Markham provide the foundation for many different types of tributes. Some families choose a traditional burial in a cemetery. If this is your preference, staff for a graveside service can be arranged to assist with the interment of the urn. This fee is separate from the opening and closing of the grave, which is a disbursement paid directly to the cemetery.

Others prefer the natural beauty of scattering. Our staff can perform the scattering of cremated remains on your behalf if requested, providing a dignified conclusion to the physical journey. Whether you choose a niche in a columbarium, a family plot, or a favorite natural spot, the goal is to find a place that brings your family comfort and reflection.

Choosing an urn is a deeply personal part of the aftercare process. Our selection ranges from economical options like the NewPointe Taurus fiberboard urn to more elaborate selections like the solid bronze Aristocrat or the beautiful Roseberry O'Connell distressed wood urn. We also offer unique ways to keep a loved one close through cremation jewellery, including gold, silver, and Murano glass pendants, as well as fingerprint jewellery. These small mementos can be a significant source of comfort, allowing you to carry a piece of their memory with you every day.

Navigating the days and weeks after a cremation can feel overwhelming, but you are never alone in this process. Our compassionate funeral directors are available 24/7 to provide support and answer any lingering questions about documentation or aftercare procedures. We believe that providing simple, affordable, and dignified services means supporting you through every stage of the journey, from the first call to the final resting place.

Navigating this journey is never easy, but you don't have to do it alone. If you have questions or simply need guidance, we are here to help. Please feel free to reach out to us or visit our page on Planning Ahead for more resources.